Question

What should I do after replaying a conversation about her work I realized that I really came across as a jerk and unsupportive? Should I bring it up and apologize and let her know that I do think what she does is awesome and she really could and should bump up into a better position? Tell her that I believe in her and would support and back her up?
My words I think came across as the position she has right now has her stressed enough why would she want to have more responsibility to pile more on or that I didn't think she could handle it.

How do I work this into a conversation?

As for the car I don't want to get into a fight and go back on my word. It can be dealt with thru paperwork. When things were going well a couple of weeks ago she was asking me a lot of questions and texting me for advice. I am a very good and firm negotiator. She did keep me updated when she went to look at a couple and let me know she had walked away from all deals.

Thx NJ


Together 10
Married 8
Bomb drop 2/19
Separated since 6/18
Papers started 9/19
Two kids 5 and 7, boys

im in the house, she is local and at her parents, boys split time

me:47
her:38