Still married couple from Scandinavia Part 2

[BenB]

This is what I don't get. Don't you want to find out where you stand?

Well, yes but I'm in no rush. I was playing the long game as we spoke of earlier. We do flirt when she's over.

I don't think this is applicable when you are separated and D papers are in the process.

We didn't see each other for 5 months and then only started talking after the cancer thing. When we do meet, it is never any of the things we used to do. No dinners, wine etc. I didn't know DB said to only agree to meeting again after NC if she is willing to R and that is the purpose of that meeting?

But if I find out that she wants us to remain buddies, it doesn't take the DB books for me to understand I need to end that immediately.