Still married couple from Scandinavia Part 2

[BenB]

AS, exactly! I wouldn't be bothered by any reply I get from her because I am not that attached to her anymore. Steve asked earlier what my level of detachment is and if on a scale of 1-10, 10 being finding out she is dating my brother then I'm probably at 8 or maybe even 9. I don't have any expectations.

She might even be dating someone right now! I have no idea. We meet maybe once a week and don't talk about that.

I do enjoy her company as a friend but I don't feel friend zoned. I have a female friend I hang out with a lot, there is absolutely no attraction between us. That's not the vibe with W these days. However, that does not mean I trust her motives. Perhaps this is, as you said earlier, her way of keeping me from moving on. Perhaps she is doing this after finding out I was on that celebrity dating app. That could be what motivates her and if I show any interest, I don't know what would happen.