This really isn't about being impatient. I don't plan on having an R talk. I should not have explained it that way as my first post today. I most certainly have no expectations, I haven't struggled with expectations in what must be over a year now. So I'm good there. I am just not sure I want to continue the way we have for the past few months.
If you have read my thread you know it started with her thinking she has cancer. But after that, we've kept in touch and what seemed like I was friend zoned has evolved into more. Steve questioned whether it could be because she is benefiting from something financially but there isn't. AS wrote that his friend started out slow like this and eventually they got back together.
So yes, I could let things be and "trust the process". But sooner or later I have to decide if I am sending that letter to finalize the D or not. I am in no rush here, not until after summer at least. Sure, I'll wait if that is the consensus here but is it? That's all I'm trying to figure out.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019
