To add a bit more. The longer this goes on and papers are not finalized the longer I'm not solo on health insurance (that payment solo will really hit hard) and other things we still share as her benefits are much better than what I will have through my job. I just didn't want to get into a tit for tat over the payments and cause an argument or fight.
Thats just my 2 more cents.
thx NJ
Together 10 Married 8 Bomb drop 2/19 Separated since 6/18 Papers started 9/19 Two kids 5 and 7, boys
im in the house, she is local and at her parents, boys split time
