So yesterday she confirms that I'm still cool with paying the same amount I have been contributing on our present car (we have 2) for a new used car. Her car has turn into a POS and burning through oil for no reason. I say yes and just want to know how much we still owed on her car. If we were 6 months away from being paid off I don't want to be stuck for 3 years of helping out. Not that it would happen when divorce is final but still.

Why in the world doesn't she just assume full responsibility for the car? If all this goes thru I'm not going to let her walk away with a newer car scott free. It will also need to be taken care of when splitting assets.

Its also been almost 2 months since I requested through our attny's for a better time arrangement and follow ups have been delivered from my attny on the time issue and for her to agree to a home assessment person for the equity. Still no response.

Keeping my cool but so aggravating. No arguments calm exchanges and all the planning for a bday neighborhood parade have gone well for the to be 6 year old

Keeping on keeping on
NJ


Together 10
Married 8
Bomb drop 2/19
Separated since 6/18
Papers started 9/19
Two kids 5 and 7, boys

im in the house, she is local and at her parents, boys split time

me:47
her:38