Mind reading. You do not know this. What is in the air is the desire for you to end this limbo you are feeling and break a very basic DB rule. Many have traveled that road before.....and have lived to regret. A couple that have posted on this forum again after a longtime in the last few weeks.
Whatever, you decide, good luck! I am pulling for you.[quote]
I'm really not in a limbo. I know how it feels to be in limbo. All of 2019 was limbo. I have moved on, I've dated women and made new friends. She can see me living my life without her and being ok with that. Her reaching out so often, that gives me zero expectations.
I can tell she understands and believes what I say when I say I will do something. So if I am to avoid having any conversation with her about this, there is only one option - tell her not to contact me anymore. Otherwise, she will reach out and want to meet me.
Thank you Steve! I appreciate that!
Last edited by BenB; 06/10/2003:07 PM.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019