If I was to write to a newcomer, I would give the same advice as Steve. But things are different now. She reaches out on a daily basis. On weekends I never meet her since I meet my friends or my brother but she always finds a reason to message me. I know she meets her friends on weekends as well so clearly she is thinking about me quite often.
Sounds like the friend zone. Sorry, but I do not see a discussion about "us" going well. Are there any other benefits she is getting from you by not being D'd? You mention a prenup, does she still have access to funds in the meantime? We've seen WAS delay the LBS from finalizing things due to benefits they are still getting as their legal S. Ask yourself honestly, are you providing things for her that end if the D is finalized?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
