No R talks. Just keep DBing. How is your GAL? How are you doing on your 180s? If I asked you to grade yourself on detachment, what grade would you give yourself.
Your options are either to keep waiting, and keep doing what you are doing. Or call your lawyer and see how you can move your D ahead.
If you bring up "us" she will retreat almost guaranteed.
When she wants to get back together, you will know. When she doesn't you will be confused.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018