WW post D (Thanks BenB part 4)

[Mumin]

You are all so right!! Thank you!
Vapo thank you for checking in again! You always have a balanced and straightforward answer!
AS always so great validation advice!
LH thanks again for sticking with me!

You are too set to make some grand gesture or some proclamation, just to make an impact with her (on her). Say it with actions, not words. Time for talk is long gone...

To clarify I am NOT going to say that expecting her to end it. I know she won't and I know it wouldnt make anything better long-term.
AS your way of wording it is so great! After a short setback I feel much more leveled.
Actually, I think it was good with a reminder/new loss as well as som 2x4's. So thanks again!

What is mostly bugging me is how she all of a sudden seems to be fine with how thing are and in no rush to move forward practically. Though I am to blame for allowing her back in my life a bit. I need to plan more and be smarter (and sometimes rude (NGS = dont like to be rude)) when it comes to not engaging too much with her.
However I don't want to live like this too much longer.

XW,
Good morning. Hopefully you and your "friend(s)" are having or had a great time in "LOCATION". I want to let you know that I am fully aware of what you have been up to the last several months and it is crystal clear to me now, your desire to leave our marriage.
Going forward, I plan to be fully committed to be the best co-parent possible and I will continue to work to remove your name from our last shared accounts. I am motivated to make things happen and will communicate my progress to you as I have been doing. I will not be doing anything with you beyond that, for the foreseeable future.
Additionally, I am requesting all of our communication be done by email, unless a phone call or text message is absolutely necessary.
Have a great day.

I really enjoyed and got inspired by this quote from "Quotes on...".
The mindset he has when typing this is where my mindset should be though an email like the below might be too soon given we will probably live together for an additional 4-14 months. Depend son what she wants and how long it takes to sell the house amidst Corona.

She loves talking with her friend because her friend is telling her what she wants to hear. WAS's love that cr*p.

So true!

Keeping at it! Will read AS post over and over on my way home tonight.
Did a chest and shoulder workout today and hit the golf range over lunch (working from home isnt too bad)