Terms like "screwed" "lose everything" is WW to paint the illusion that they are the ones to feel sorry for right now. My ex told today she lost one job and got her hours cut at other. Awwwww too bad so sad. Times are tough right now and wouldn't it be great to have a partner to rely on.
She's a detached avoidant who wants to remain friends with you and will take any opening you allow her to be chummy with you.