One thing I learned in my sitch was that I did not want to be married to someone that I had to monitor forever. My suggestion to you is that you pick a date in the future that you want to stop monitoring her. This is for you, not her. Do not share it. Just say to yourself "6 months from now. I want to be secure in my MR that I do not have to monitor her". Note, that doesn't mean that you don't have full transparency, it means you do not use the transparency. It is the way my W and I are now. I have access to all of her accounts. But it has been almost a year since I exercised it (documented in my threads).
Onward and upward! Keep working Keep requiring her to work. Ring and piecing is a long long long process.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
