[Stormchaser]

Oh no, LiM, I'm so sorry you're going thru this. Again.

I've been in therapy since my W's affair in 2016. Recently, I'm just starting to feel different about it all. I've been revisiting my old forums and just reading. Then I saw your post.

I don't think I can really add much to what others are saying.

I look back on my old posts. I actually sent flowers to my wife after her A with a co-worker? To her workplace? I want a time machine so I can punch old me in the face.

Babbling here. She's been a good wife since her affair. Yes, she's done some sneaky things (deleted texts, lots of selfies), but for the most part its been good. Therapist advises we go back into MC with someone he recommends, but Covid put the brakes on all that.

If it were me, I'd chuck it. Seriously dude, your kids are old enough now to know she's a kook. Rip the band aid off and get this over with. Sign those papers now. Then sign up for Tinder.

Why is it so hard to walk away? You're not p*ssed off enough. That'll come later.

Know your value. You're a killer dad with a lot to offer someone else. H*ll, I go to the clubs with my wife and her friends (all single/divorced) and everyone of them asks me, "do you have a brother?"

Kids not happy with your W? Good. She'll probably tell everyone around that you brainwashed them. Truth always comes out eventually.

I might add more later.

Storm