Hi GettinT, my GF meets a guy friend for coffee. She met him weekly, before we were together, and monthly now. Years ago, just after she and I became exclusive, he worked up the nerve to ask her out, and she rejected him. My worry level? 1 out of 10. If our relationship is stable, he's no threat. If our relationship is fragile, everyone's a threat.
Originally Posted by GettinT
Would it be her hanging at his place without her daughter, maybe having a cup of coffee or glass of wine?
Visiting his home and drinking alcohol with him alone would make me uncomfortable.
Originally Posted by GettinT
It's interesting to notice how I want to proceed so much faster now with my gf and even would like to lock her up with some kind of commitment.
I assume you two have at least committed to exclusivity.
