This is what I wanted, right? him back, no OW. (Lets assume he is even able to drop her) ... for whatever reason now I am full of fear and anxiety about that path and I have no idea why!!!
BlueSea I think it is very important to keep your expectations at zero. Think of a crack addict trying to get off crack. It usually doesn't happen the first time they try. It usually comes after rock bottom. I don't think your husband is at rock bottom. It will be very important that you put no pressure on him in anyway shape or form.
Originally Posted by BlueSea
Still have the 'ask to leave' request on the deck but now thinking will give him the 2 weeks and see if he can drop her - that would clearly mean something - if it can be backed up with no more night runs.
I think this is a good idea. Calmly state that he did not follow through on his word and ask him to leave.
