Thanks Steve85

I will go know and look for that quote. It's the issue with the boys 6 and 8 and knowing they will be heart broken and wondering how this will affect them long term. Asking for answers to questions about our relationship and getting "i'm not interested in talking, you never listen so why would it matter now" or I told you 1000 times and me asking to see them in writing for 1001 and the last time. Still no cooperation just more blame.

The boys are getting more and more vocal with saying they want to be home and not at the grandparents house w/ mom. They do have everything over there even their own bedroom but its not their house.

Just got to keep keeping on

thx
NJ


Together 10
Married 8
Bomb drop 2/19
Separated since 6/18
Papers started 9/19
Two kids 5 and 7, boys

im in the house, she is local and at her parents, boys split time

me:47
her:38