Sage, I am so glad this is useful to you. Perhaps as well as a lawyer, you can make a list of loving and soothing and interesting and developing-yourself sorts of things you want to do over the next couple of weeks?
(This is advice I was given, and which I spectacularly fail to take - preferring to meddle in the lives of my children and ruminate on ways my H needs to improve. So I am also going to take it myself and post something on my thread to that effect tonight. Perhaps we can be accountability buddies for each other?)
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You will look back and cringe at the BS you put up with him.
This is SO TRUE. And if you do R, the less BS you expose yourself to now, the easier piecing will be. Don't put yourself forward to accept more behaviour you will have to work to forgive and heal from later. Boundaries are the best friend you have for either an R or a good divorce.
