I guess I shouldn't have but I asked her tonight why she brought things up last night and what she meant with "I belong here with you".
Had a conversation but I tried to mostly listen and validate. Repeated several of the things she said.
This is an excerpt of what I can remember:
W - I wish we would have gone down a different path. I know I'm mostly to blame but we took one another for granted and I didn't feel like or viewed you as a partner. We didnt understand how good it was. W - Feel like I am living two lives. I mean its obvious I pack my bag everyother day. That must be tough for you. W - Its probably best I keep things to myself. Me - Depends on why you bring it up.
W - I guess I feel that I miss the life we had but not our relation/partnership. Me - Well like you said we didn't really have one in the end. (meaning relationship/partnership har to translate correctly)
W (while crying) - Feels like only one who cares for me is nameofgirlfriendshekeepstalkingto. Me- ITs not Iike I dont care at all for you and I don't like seeing you like this but I can't be that person for you anymore, not when you chose to be with someone else.
Somewhere along the conversation I also said she never gave us a chance. 2x4“s?
Last edited by Mumin; 06/07/2008:27 PM.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021