I guess I shouldn't have but I asked her tonight why she brought things up last night and what she meant with "I belong here with you".

Had a conversation but I tried to mostly listen and validate.
Repeated several of the things she said.

This is an excerpt of what I can remember:

W - I wish we would have gone down a different path. I know I'm mostly to blame but we took one another for granted and I didn't feel like or viewed you as a partner. We didnt understand how good it was.
W - Feel like I am living two lives. I mean its obvious I pack my bag everyother day. That must be tough for you.
W - Its probably best I keep things to myself.
Me - Depends on why you bring it up.

W - I guess I feel that I miss the life we had but not our relation/partnership.
Me - Well like you said we didn't really have one in the end. (meaning relationship/partnership har to translate correctly)

W (while crying) - Feels like only one who cares for me is nameofgirlfriendshekeepstalkingto.
Me- ITs not Iike I dont care at all for you and I don't like seeing you like this but I can't be that person for you anymore, not when you chose to be with someone else.

Somewhere along the conversation I also said she never gave us a chance.
2x4“s?

Last edited by Mumin; 06/07/20 08:27 PM.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021