Thanks for the response. Like I said I did ask her for an update, I agree, it was an excuse to reach out. You have my number!
She sent me a few more messages, just re-iterating she made her choice to get a divorce, we should have never been married, she is still seeing the AP, etc. I still don't understand how someone can say all of those things, but not actually complete the divorce.
Anyway, yes I am concerned about the property, and yes I am sick of limbo, and yes I would love to work things out. Just like her, I also can't have my cake and eat it to. I think I just need to move forward and take my own action and accept that she is gone and not coming back. Not in any time that would be acceptable anyway. The limbo is just becoming to much for me and I'm afraid I will start to become very negative the longer I let it go.
