I received a letter from H. Asking for 6 more months (S) while he decides whether or not he wants to get a D. He is doing some deep work with his IC right now and that process just started and he wants the time to really explore who he is and what he wants. He briefly admits to his bad decisions surrounding the EA and how he has treated me, but doesn't go into any great depth of how this is impacting me. The majority of the letter is about him and his process and his needs. He admits that it is a lot to ask of me and he understands if I want to move on. That even at the end of the 6 months he may not be coming back to the MR and that is a risk we both take.
It is really so much to process and think about. Part of me wants to contemplate his request, part of me wants to counter with my own needs if I agree to this, and a part of me just wants to D and get it over with.
