So I decided to go shoot some pool tonight. Put on some jeans, a nice shirt, my W's favorite cologne for me, and went out. W was at her sisters swimming and called me just as I was walking out the door and asked if I could please bring her some clothes that she forgot so she could get dry to eat dinner and asked if I wanted to eat with them. I took her the clothes and went ahead and hung around long enough to scarf a bit of food, then off I went.
I was OTW to the pool hall (PH) when my step-D20 called, asked what I was doing and if she and her BF could come. I reluctantly said yes. They were dropped off by the friend that had been driving them around all day but he didn't stay. After about 2 hours or so my step-D said she was getting tired and wanted to go home. As I was now their ride I took the BF home then brought the step-D home. When we got home the W was still awake and seemed a bit irritated or mad. Now, our whole family has an app on our phones where we can see where everyone in our circle is, and I guess she had looked at it. I asked what was wrong and she said I had lied to her by not telling her the step-D was going with me to shoot pool. I didn't get angry, I just calmly said "I didn't know she was going to come until after I left", and then I laughed and asked "why would I need to lie about spending time with my kid". W sort of smirked and said "I didn't say it made sense". At least she acknowledged somewhere in the short convo that "she didn't really have the right to be mad either way" which I was already kind of thinking. This whole exchange seemed really weird. Like she was somehow jealous despite what she had done and despite her asking for an open marriage. I had considered going back out, but after this exchange and considering I was already a bit tired I decided not to.
Speaking of that app that we have, should I turn it off when I am GALing? I mean we have all always left it on, even the W during what she did left it on at all times. Seems like me turning it off now would appear extra shady, like I am the one doing something wrong. On the other hand it's hard to be mysterious, when you can be tracked like a convict on house arrest. What do you think about this app?
