I feel like I am dropping the rope again and have been GAL for some time. I am rationalizing that if the D does come not much will change from what the stich is right now except the financials on me will be greater.
Like I said I have bought another copy of DR and have been blowing through it and will re-read it again, i'm not being reactionary towards anything from her and am being the best for the boys.
I'm not looking for a magic bullet but just reassurance through someone elses story that a flip flopper can eventually flop back to wanting to work on the marriage.
It is what it is and I will be fine wo her.
thx NJ
Together 10 Married 8 Bomb drop 2/19 Separated since 6/18 Papers started 9/19 Two kids 5 and 7, boys
im in the house, she is local and at her parents, boys split time
