All I can tell you is that DBing is hard enough sober-minded. I no longer drank when I with through my sitch but there is no way I would be still married to my W today if I had been drinking because I would not have DB'd well.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
