Reading the great advice here from LH19, Steve85, AS, Sandy et al helps me focus on what I need to do to prevent this ship sailing.
So in summary, I hope and pray I never have to start a thread.
And finally thank you to the Vets, yourself & Cadet for your tireless dedication to helping the lives of people you have never met. For many posters this is the worst time of their lives and you guys are here day in day out being a rock for them.
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I think its great you come here to be proactive in your current relationship and I am glad you it helps you.
I juts want to remind newbies that each poster has their own opinion and style on the way they deliver their opinion. I tend to be straight to the point w/o blowing sunshine up anyone's a$$ based on information that I have learned from various sources over the last five years. Some posters I good at validating in the advice they give. The advice giving is meant to help you in your situation and is never meant to hurt you in anyway. Most of the time in the moment you cannot see the forest within the trees but months/years down the road you will understand why you were given that advice at the time.
