Honestly I don’t think my kids even feel the two house thing anymore. It will be 2 years next month and our relationship couldn’t be better. We’ve bonded big time during COVID and they are both doing really good in school. I still do get a pang every now and then when they are gone for 4 days. I’m not gonna lie I at times really enjoy my alone time. In the beginning when it was just the three of us it seemed like something or someone was missing. It doesn’t anymore it feels normal. At times I miss the full family structure but it’s been so long since times were good I don’t even remember it anymore. Life is what you make of it and with all the crazy stuff going on in the world it’s pretty good right now.