Job, the ship has sailed on my 'situation' back in early 2015, wish I had found this site back then. I come here, almost daily, to ensure my new relationship (since Aug 2018) doesn't go the same way. I beleive many of the techniques in DB are applicable to maintaining my current wonderful relationship. Reading the great advice here from LH19, Steve85, AS, Sandy et al helps me focus on what I need to do to prevent this ship sailing.
So in summary, I hope and pray I never have to start a thread.
And finally thank you to the Vets, yourself & Cadet for your tireless dedication to helping the lives of people you have never met. For many posters this is the worst time of their lives and you guys are here day in day out being a rock for them.