Yes. I went through the same thing about 6 months into Ring and piecing. I got to where I wanted to walk away myself. I gave it weeks before I acted on it, and that is what I would suggest you do. These kinds of feelings come and go. Give yourself time. "If I still feel this way 3 months from now then I will hire a lawyer and start the process."
I have a question though. When you first met your W, did you immediately trust her? Or did she have to earn your trust over time? I am not a "trust out of the gate" person. Whether it is a new friend, the SO of a friend or family, a new boss, employee, etc. I am distrustful until that person earns my trust. I don't think you trusted your W the day you met her. Over time she earned it. And that is back to where you are now. You rightfully do not trust her anymore, but can you trust here again in the future if she is consistent in her behavior over a long period of time?
Last edited by Steve85; 06/04/2002:37 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
