One last thing. We see this a lot. You are falling into the reaction trap. "Oh we had a good talk! He likes me and we have a chance!" "Oh he was mean and refused to talk to me, I am doomed the world is ending!"
Bluesea, the fact is that this man is a lying-cheater. And apparently needs to continue sleeping on your couch (PLAN B) until his Plan A is full solidified. And everything he is saying is to keep that in place until no longer needed. As LH says.....actions are important...words are meaningless.
And please stop pointing out to him how much you've changed. That negates the changes in the WAS' mind. It tells them you are just changing to get them back. You change for you. For real. He'll either notice or he won't. You can't control that last part.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
