Job - Thanks for the link. I will spend some time reading the posts. And thanks for the reminder to be patient. H has expressed on numerous occassions how he wants to pick up and start fresh with me somewhere else. I keep reminding him that it would not work. I think he would like to sweep it all under the rug, but I need to stay strong to ensure my old self does not rear it's ugly head - the one that loves to sweep difficult things under the rug. My new confident and open self wants to start tackling the issues right now, but I will head your advice as I see the value in it. I believe my journey brought me to this time, and has provided me the strength to in fact stay strong. I will wait for H to reach out, and provide support when appropriate.
