wayfarer, give it some more time. Likely the changes you've made are having an impact on him. My W on BD was ready to run headlong into her plan of getting a D, getting a job and getting an apartment. The longer she was still here and I was working and growing the less headlong she ran down that path. Patience is the key. Give him the time he needs to sort it all out. At some point he will want to deal with it and will come to you to discuss it.

My question for you is what will you say? Hopefully you've got a list of things you'd like to see from him so that both of you can commit to MR 2.0. Things like IC for him. MC for both of you, etc.

Do not be the one to initiate this conversation, but be ready for it when it comes.

In the meantime, DB.....GAL, 180s, detachment. And never stop DBing.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018