1. I did get the DBing book yesterday, already finished chapter 4. Although so far (so just about to start the techniques sections). So far it's seem to have a lot of good advice but it feels like it's more for when both people are willing to set goals and work toward them. Would DR have been a better book for my sitch?
2. Last night I was looking for some scissors, and found the journal I previously mentioned she had written in the night before. I couldn't help myself and read it. It was mostly her lamenting about the lost friendship and how she wished she had never started anything, how he "understood her and made her feel again". She was worried this might cost one or both of them their job (not sure how but whatever). One sentence did catch my eye though. "Hell he may have even saved my marriage, but that remains to be seen". While it is nice to see that she at least is considering saving our M, I am still very cautiously optimistic. It's not going to change what I do or need to do but at least now I do have some minor indication that she may be willing to give this a chance and not just telling me what I want to hear to avoid D.
