That is exactly what was said. It became the blame show and it was all about me, not thinking about the boys and I was being spiteful and wasting money. This whole process is a waste of money and time that could be spent on repairing and working on our marriage. Ugg. I told her that I was following the recommendations from my atty and reminded her that she had used those same words a bit ago. I also said I did not want to nit pick thru stuff and make sure no one got the short end of the stick so the boys would be equally well cared for.
Its aggravating because she has been sent letters to start alternating weekends bc of COVID and the ending of school for them and me so I could get more time with them and will not agree so right now I get the short end of the stick as far as time with them. Talk about being spiteful. she gets them 4 days a week and me 3.
If it happens (her reaching out) I again I will react much more slowly, I'm not reaching out and the only contact is brief (if any) when dropping the boys off
NJ
Together 10 Married 8 Bomb drop 2/19 Separated since 6/18 Papers started 9/19 Two kids 5 and 7, boys
im in the house, she is local and at her parents, boys split time
