Side note- now I know who both these guys are. Matter of fact, they both live within a mile of us (which [censored]). Without sounding conceded, both are far less attractive, overweight, and somewhat unsuccessful. Why does she chose people who are beneath her? Is that related to insecurities? I'm honestly not trying to sound like I'm super handsome superhero but her own friends mentioned it to me....she downgraded. I guess it doesn't matter in the long run. Just a thought.
That's because she has low self esteem and loves the ego boost because these men fall all over her. My ex is the same way. This doesn't last long because people who jump through hoops for you are not valuable and are therefore not attractive. You value people who are confident and self-sufficient, and that you feel you need to work to get. When you get attention from those people you feel good about yourself.
Originally Posted by kto626
Abd LH, thank you too for your continued support and advice. You tell it how it is. Sometimes I don't always agree with you but your comments make me think. I do really appreciate your well wishes.
I don't think it's worth while to blow sunshine up peoples arses here. I think your W most likely will cheat again and it's just a matter of time. Without motivation people in general don't change. But I do understand why you want to give her another chance and of course I wish you and your daughter well.
