Here is a thread that I created many years ago on the reconnection process. I hope this helps. One thing that I caution people who are in the process of reconnecting...you, the LBS, must be very, very patient. This is the stage whereby you need to listen, provide a safe place to land and allow them to come to you. There will come a time when you can talk about what transpired...but you really must dig deeper for patience. This is the hardest stage for both the MLCer and the LBS.
Also, check out Westo's threads. She and her h have successfully reconnected and back together.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
