Originally Posted by Tom Hanks in A League of Their Own
"It's supposed to be hard. If it were easy, everyone would do it."
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
I have a feeling if it was sports he wanted learn about, hours could be spent. I get it, it’s hard with different interests. But it’s going to take a lot of effort and patience.
As far as short changing your girls by going down the slide with him, I get it. I think the doc will have to take part in this too. When M and I went to the water park or the fair, we would trade kids for a little while. I would go on rides with his son, and he went on with my daughter. They both loved it.
It would be good probably for the doc to take the girls to do something and on that day, you take her son to do something. His choice though. You aren’t going to make him into a man, but let him share something with you. And fake the utmost interest .
Last edited by job; 07/28/2004:39 PM. Reason: added link to new thread
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.