Hi Andy,

I am not on much these days, but LH19 and Steve85 are very wise Dbers. Be thankful they are posting to you.

Now is a great time to make positive changes to your belief system and behaviors. People here have done it and can help support you though yours.

My belief is most guys do not understand what woman are (hardwired) attracted to. Do you research in this area.

Confidence is at the top of the pile. Project confidence while going through this. Embrace the process.


Everything I could ever tell you to do is found here:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712


Best worst thing I ever went through. I am a better person having gone though it.

Take all your focus off of your wife and put all your energy into your personal growth and being a great father.

I wish you well.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712