So I went downstairs to get some lunch, and my W came into the kitchen and told me she was "spinning out", she was "going crazy" and might go take a drive to clear her head. I asked if she wanted any lunch before she went. Before she could answer her phone rang, it was the friend of hers that helped solve our "soap" problem. I know it was her because this friend talks VERY loudly, I can tell it's her even when I'm upstairs in my office and I was only about 5 feet away. My W asked her if she could come over and talk, the friend agreed. My W made 2 sandwiches, grabbed the journal she was writing in last night, came up and gave me about a 1 min hug (which never happens), then kissed me and said ILU. I said it back and she said she would be back around 5:00 or so (there have been calls on the internet for for riots in my area for tonight) and she left.
This being my W's best friend and confidant, I am sure there will be a lot of openness (maybe not completely) and discussion until the poor dead horse is thoroughly beaten. I have no idea what kind of advice this friend will give though. Although for better or worse, it will probably be in my favor. I'll let you guys know what transpires when she gets home.
