Mumin, she followed me around the house begging me to talk to her, apologizing, saying she didn't tell me because she knew she caused enough pain. I asked her to leave me alone and she said she was going to sleep in the car. After numerous texts from her asking me to talk to her and apologizing, she finally said she was sleeping in the basement.
Steve, I agree with you in a lot of ways. She has done exactly what I have asked in terms if transparency. I look through her phone and find things that hurt. She was a WW but I do believe she isn't anymore. It's just the lying that I don't get. I mean, I get she doesn't want to hurt me but the lies cannot help me trust her.
My W (38) and myself (39) have a beautiful D3. She was so happy to have mom home. How do in break that innocent girl? I'm not saying I'm letting her stay but I'm not going to give up and just kick her out.
Do I keep her out if the bedroom? Do I continue on with our lives while working to be better? I am going to MC tonight, which my W has begged me to do. I just don't know what boundaries I set from here
