Sorry you are back in this way.
First. Make sure you stick around here! No matter the feeling/trust with your WW you are still in a marathon.
Actually the race has JUST started.
You know the quality of the feedback/input on these boards!

Second, I would probably not go to MC with her. (Depends on what you've said in the recent few hours.)
Tell her you need to think and really consider how you feel like LH said.
If you do go, be sure to listen to WHAT and HOW she says, and be very restictive of what you say.
Read the validation and boundary cheat sheets!

Last edited by Mumin; 06/02/20 11:59 AM.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021