I'm back. But unfortunately because of more hurt. Things have been fairly positive with my wife and I. Until I looked through her phone to find out there was an affair before the affair. When my W moved out after I found about her affair, her friend and my W were texting and she asked if I found out about "Tal" which my wife replied, no. I confronted my W and all she said was it was some guy she new. So, I called her friend who told me his name and confirmed it was an affair. She said she thinks it lasted a month or so. Again, I confronted my W and she said it was one time. I don't believe her. Regardless, I needed truth and transparency and she couldn't do that. I'm so lost.
My W said she couldn't hurt me again and that's why she didn't tell me. That she's made changes and loves me and will do anything to keep me. I told her to leave and she won't. She sleeping in the basement right now. I'm dreading tomorrow because I don't know what to do. Most of me says screw her. Part of me says this was part of my old wife and she has made positive changes.
What is your advice? My D3 is so happy to have her family back and it breaks my heart to rip that from her.
