So I'm just wondering, is it worth reaching out and asking what is going on? Why is it taking so long to reach a deal we can sign off on? Or should I continue to remain no contact?
So I'm just wondering, is it worth reaching out and asking what is going on? Why is it taking so long to reach a deal we can sign off on? Or should I continue to remain no contact?
I think you simply want to "reach out", and asking for an update about the D is a good excuse.
You are kind of talking out of both sides of your mouth. You give your reasons for needing to know where things stand about the D, due to the property involve........plus, you are sick of limbo. Then, you admit you still want to work it out. So, yeah........you are just wanting to reach out for the "contact".
If she hasn't ended her affair, I think reaching out will simply let her know you are still waiting for her return........otherwise, you would have taken care of things. Walk carefully.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
