Hi all, and thank you so much for all advice!! LH, AS, Job (nice to see you stopping by!)
I keep saying it but this place truly is amazing!

Unfortunately for DB my workday has been crazy hectic and I answered the friend in the middle of it and never returned here to see these awesome replies...
Didnt go to bad though. I answered a mix of what you guys said but a bit too much detail.

I totally agree with you AS on staying out of it.
In my work stress I actually both gave the friend my W's work phone number AND told W about it...
That last part is SOO much NGS.
W replied "Thank you H" (With a heart emoji?)
Basically I have "helped" W to soften the blow, while being her errand boy... D@mn it!
Luckily this thing is a minor part of the whole sitch.

Once again THANK YOU for all your replies. This process is relaly helping me develop as a man and personally!
I realize more and more the depth of my NGS...


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021