Hi all, and thank you so much for all advice!! LH, AS, Job (nice to see you stopping by!) I keep saying it but this place truly is amazing!
Unfortunately for DB my workday has been crazy hectic and I answered the friend in the middle of it and never returned here to see these awesome replies... Didnt go to bad though. I answered a mix of what you guys said but a bit too much detail.
I totally agree with you AS on staying out of it. In my work stress I actually both gave the friend my W's work phone number AND told W about it... That last part is SOO much NGS. W replied "Thank you H" (With a heart emoji?) Basically I have "helped" W to soften the blow, while being her errand boy... D@mn it! Luckily this thing is a minor part of the whole sitch.
Once again THANK YOU for all your replies. This process is relaly helping me develop as a man and personally! I realize more and more the depth of my NGS...
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021