Steve, I should mention, his phone never leaves his hand! I noticed the camera was open when he walked in with it. Also, it is helpful that it is with him always, because I probably would snoop. Additionally, it is a work issued phone, so I never could see the bill, so that is even more helpful.
But you are right, he is in fantasy land. This MLC has been going on for a little over a year, and I am still shocked that my formerly level headed 57 year old husband has turned into a 14 year old teen. (No disrespect to the teens)
I need to continue my DB and not think about what he is doing.