Ginger did a great job about hammer home most of the points but I wanted to discuss the idea of “kicking him out.” Now legally you can’t kick him out assuming that his name is on the mortgage. But you can ask him to leave. That communicates to him that you are not ok with the affair.
Ginger is right when she says IHS while someone is in an active. To do it the MWD way they are assuming that you will put all the focus on you and the kids and you can probably admit to yourself that it is almost impossible to do.
I have nothing but compassion for you Bluesea because I can feel the pain in your posts. The quickest way back is to go in a straight line in the opposite direction. It sure is easier said then done.
