And then it was over.

[BlueSea]

Ginger - Then I am clearly confused - and misinterpreting MWDs words - to me it sounded like I keep him in the house and let him have his affair and wait for it to fizzle out. I have re-read it a million times, its only one chapter.

If I am not getting it (which your telling me) then pull out more 2x4's and explain it to me. But asking me if I respect myself is just too broad for me. I am ready to do what it takes and this is what I thought it was. That this was a path, harder to do, but a viable path.

"But your self worth is truly the corner store to saving yourself and possibly saving your marriage."
Can you be more specific please? I don't know if your saying I need to work on detaching or your saying I should kick him out.

What is the right context for that chapter 8? I really want to know. Especially if that is a 0% route. I am not saying that I am okay with being plan b, what I am saying is that he is confused and loving how she is making him feel - and then MWD adds these affairs last about 6 months or so, then fizzle, so if I can hang on for that long, it should work out. I dont feel like I am okay being a plan b...I feel that I am the prize and he will realize that soon, win him without words.

I am okay being schooled - specifics help though!