WW post D (Thanks BenB part 3)

[Mumin]

One of W's best friends from college, who also sang at our wedding reached out.
She says she can't get a hold of W and is wondering how she is?
W has been avoiding everything and almost everyone from "our" part of her life for the past 6 months.
The friend and her husband recently had a child, and now she can't he t a hold of one of her better friends...
I feel sorry for the friend and get angry at W.

One side of me wants to tell her everything and say how bad W has been acting. But that would be controlling and going behind her back.
Guess I will answer something like.
Hi friend
"Me and W are partly separated since 4 months back.
So things aren't great but we are getting by.
How are you three doing? Would love to meet you guys and the baby!
Will tell W you reached out. "