Originally Posted by TBSakaJ9
I know but what am I supposed to do? Make her not think I am the greatest thing in the world? Pick a fight? I am kind of at a loss when it comes to that.


we're all clear you're right up there with PB& J sammiches. No need to make her think otherwise.

Originally Posted by TBSakaJ9


Yes, I agree. Me living in the house full time would make it very hard on her son even harder if my girls were there.

I guess I just need to be happy with the current situation?


Are you happy with the current situation?

Originally Posted by TBSakaJ9


Doc does like her alone time no doubt. I am sure she doesn't want to lose me either so it could be a combo.


I think what I was ineptly trying to convey was to be watchful that she's not pretzeling herself to keep you, because that is not a long term plan for happiness for either of you. Take a subtle approach.

Last edited by Cadet; 05/31/20 02:02 PM.

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