Hi Pommy, I just read up on your thread and wanted to say that I think you’re doing very well with no contact. I can understand the struggle of trying to figure out whether that’s the right path, how much contact to give when the WAS is asking for more, and dealing with the limbo. I’ve struggled a lot with whether to go no contact for awhile, how much contact to give, and dealing with a H who, while saying things that look they are trending towards R, still keeps things or keeps going back to the middle. Good for you for navigating some of those situations deftly.
I'm 40, H is 36. No kids. No infidelity of which I'm aware. Mini BD January 2020 -- not sure if he wants to try anymore BD March 2020 -- separation