Steve, I like your suggestion. I need to confront and follow up with filing if she doesn’t commit to 100% NC with OM. I can tolerate her not committing to me for a time, but I will no longer tolerate her remaining in contact with OM while living with me.
You are still trying to control her..
Giving her an ultimatum about no contact.. WTF... wasn’t this like one of 20 things you tried 12 months ago..
You don’t grasp the fact that she has no respect for you and your ultimatums don’t worry her..Look at your track record..
She will either just get smarter at hiding it, or just not care anyway.. in her eyes there is zero consequences to her actions because you talk the talk, but never follow through..and that’s irrelevant anyway because you are still overlooking the fact that the affair is like an addiction.. she is addicted to him..this guy turns up at your property and scares your children, yet she is still choosing him.. so in the grand sceme of things do you really believe if that didn’t scare her off him, an ultimatum from you will do the trick..? Really???
It’s sad to be typing this. My phone memories popped up this morning and showed pictures of our holiday “on this day” 12 months ago, and I remember replying a lot to your posts in the evening in the holiday cottage..it’s very sad that 12 months later you haven’t worked on your self enough or found peace - as you just can’t let go of what you once had or just enjoy life.
Last edited by MrBrside; 05/29/2004:07 PM.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
