Every time I interact with her now I feel better leaving her behind.
To clarify "leaving her behind", I mean walking away from the interaction knowing she's staying where she is and not part of my life anymore.
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
Chris, my only encouragement moving forward is to make sure you deal with any unresolved emotional baggage. Not with her, but with yourself. That is the best way to move on healthy and happy.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Thanks Steve. It's a full-time job! I'm still in IC twice a month. Some days I have to force myself to take a break from "working on myself!"
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
I have merged your threads together in Newcomers. Please stick to one thread until you've reached 100 postings/replies.
You also have a couple of threads in the Divorce section that you can link into this thread if you so desire.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
